Video 3

Module #14. Coaching Demos
Video Three: The Solution for Any Problem

Welcome to the third video. Module 14 is composed largely of videos for you to watch and draw insights from, in which we once again look at the idea that Radical Forgiveness is the solution to any problem.

We have made this bold claim many times before, but after looking at the 8 videos in the previous two videos in this module, all of which showed me helping people deal with very different types of problems, I imagine you will now see the validity in that claim. And, what you have learned, too, I hope, is that the solution and the method we use for delivering the solution is more or less the same, no matter what the problem might be.

So, as long as you follow the 5-Stage progression and keep your focus on those 3 basic questions — What is perfect about what is occurring for this person, how is the perfection revealing itself, and how can I get this person to see the perfection? — you will be successful in coming up with the solution every time.

In order to emphasize this point, and to remedy a common misperception that Radical Forgiveness has only a narrow and limited use, I wrote the book, 25 Practical Uses for Radical Forgiveness, A Handbook for Solving the Problems and Challenges of Everyday Life in a New Way.

I wrote it in the hope that it would open peoples’ eyes to the wider potential for increasing happiness by applying Radical Forgiveness and Radical Self-Forgiveness to all manner of things across the whole spectrum of experience. Here are some examples of where it has proven to be effective.

Typical Problems Solved by Radical Forgiveness
• Relationship problems of all kinds
• Old hurts (Abandonment, sexual abuse, rejection, infidelity, betrayal, physical abuse, shaming, injustice, rape, incest, divorce, discrimination, etc.)
• Anger towards people who have wounded you (Parents, siblings, spouse, ex-spouse, partners, boss, professional service people, etc.)
• Mistreatment by institutions or organizations (Governments, press, churches, cults, groups, the justice system, the medical system, etc.)
• Addictions of all kinds
• Weight and body issues
• Health, in general

• Cancer, in particular
• Inability to create success
• Blocked creative power
• Inability to create a loving relationship
• Poverty consciousness
• Patterns of self-limitation and sabotage All those will yield to the Radical Forgiveness approach. Typical Problems that are Solved by Radical SELF-Forgiveness
• Incessant self-criticism and judgment
• Excessive guilt and shame
• Very low self-esteem
• Injured self-respect
• Self-loathing
In the body of the book, I gave some specific examples of where Radical Forgiveness could be applied to good effect, some of which were things that one ordinarily wouldn’t expect to see resolved by something like Radical Forgiveness.

Even though a lot of the content of this book will be familiar to you, it is required reading, and there will be some questions on it in the assessment for this module.

So enjoy this module, enjoy the videos, make plenty of notes, journal it, and you will probably want to watch all of these videos more than once or twice even.

We’ll see you in Module #15.